Coffee ☕️ in one hand, confidence in another.
I’m sure at some point, all of us have struggled with confidence, low self esteem or knowing if we are on the right path!!!
It’s easy to do, it’s easy to get wrapped up in that mindset.
Confidence comes with knowing who you are as a person. It’s comes from years of mistakes, lessons learned and probably traveling down the wrong path a time or two!!
I know in the 36 years of my life I haven’t always made the right choices. I haven’t always traveled down the right path and I know for sure I have struggled with confidence a time or two!!
Over my the years, I have learned to take it one step at a time. Change will not come overnight. And believing it will come overnight can cause major frustration, which is definitely not the goal.
Instead, get into the habit of doing little things every day that create big change. And if you have a couple of bad days, don’t get discouraged. There will be plenty of ups and downs. The important thing is to keep moving forward.
Another important lesson I have learned (and probably the hard way) is surround yourself with people who believe in you, and I mean REALLY believe in you, not just say that they do!! You will learn the difference.
We are often (or always) our own worst critics. If you’re having trouble developing self-confidence or a high self esteem, try to surround yourself with people who are confident in you. You can’t control everything, but you can usually control the people you spend time with.
Say goodbye to the people who diminish you or put you down. Instead, stay close to those who build you up and believe in you. Their support will help you realize that you should believe in yourself too.
So if your struggling with your confidence, or low self esteem, wake up tomorrow morning, grab your cup of coffee and tell yourself ITS GOING TO BE A GOOD DAY!!! You are in control of your own destiny so make it a good one!!!
💙 AMBER
Xoxo 💋